"In fact, a couple may disagree substantially on this issue,'' she said."In my job, I sometimes counsel young people and a lot of times they say: 'Oh well, we’ll just bracket that question for now.' "But sometimes people actually have pretty strong feelings about whether they will or won’t have children. So they should ask: 'Well, what can you imagine your life might be like in 10 years? ' Of course, both this general advice and the specific tips apply to men as well as women.During the recently passed Singles' Day, Tian has once again become the relationship guru that her female friends consult relentlessly on the subject of how to snag fresh meat (a young, handsome man)."They said that my husband is young, handsome, considerate, caring and comes from a good family, so how can an 'old woman' like me get him to marry me and love me? On October 31, 2017, South Korea stars Song Hye-kyo and Song Joong-ki got married.Song Hye-kyo is four years older than Song Joong-ki.They suggest serious discussions about one another’s goals and aspirations for work and career, for how expensive a lifestyle you wish to live, and particularly important — children.Nadine, 65, pointed out that women may assume their partner wants kids.
It wasn’t a wise decision to marry him but it was an out for me at that time.As 81-year-old Marie said bluntly, “it is better to not marry than to marry the wrong person.Both my husband and I were married once before, and it took that experience to learn this lesson." Virginia, 73, described rushing into marriage as one of the biggest mistakes anyone can make. "So there was this fellow I’d been going with, and we up and got married the week I turned 18.I was in my 30s at that point, and I said 'Hmm, you know, this is what I want.' And this guy had those qualities — many more good ones than bad ones.
"By that time in my life, I was awake to what I needed.
So I had to think when asked to consider the question: "What’s one thing older women would like younger women to know about love and marriage?